Couple's Corner: Our Misunderstandings
Though we both studied in the same school in college, took the same course, can illustrate and do graphic design at a click of a mouse, share the same faith, and love basketball, we still sometimes don’t understand each other!
We had many misunderstandings when we were just dating. The worst happened about three months before our wedding. We almost called it quits then! I completely forgot the reason. (If Fred is only awake while I am writing this, I think he would have remembered.) What I only remembered then was it was my fault.
During our bf-gf days, Fred and I were seeing each other almost everyday. Believe me, presence breeds closeness and closeness sometimes breeds suffocation. Whenever we have misunderstandings of crying proportion, I would always tell him not to see me or visit me at the office for a week. Countless also were the times when we both agreed to see each other at least once or twice a week to give space and time to ourselves. But maybe we just love each other so much then that we always broke our promise. We end up still seeing each other the day after our petty quarrels.
We still have misunderstandings until now. But I believe those things happen because we are two different people with different views and upbringing. I always believe that our love and respect for each other will see this partnership through. (Cheesy me again!) Read more...



























